Ultimate Guide to Boudoir Lingerie and Accessories

The Must-Haves for the Perfect Boudoir Looks

The Ultimate Guide to Lingerie, Accessories, and Props

When you step into your boudoir session, it’s not just about the lingerie—it’s about crafting a moment. Think of it as storytelling through textures, colors, and movement. The right lingerie sets the tone, but it’s the accessories and props that take it to another level. Let’s dive deep into creating your dream boudoir look.

Woman posing in three piece lace set in a feature image for this lingerie guide.

Lingerie Styles That Speak Your Language

1. The Classic Black Lace Bodysuit
Timeless, sultry, and universally flattering. Black lace hugs your body in all the right places, while intricate details add a touch of mystery. Add a deep red lip, and you’re serving femme fatale realness.
🖤 Shop this look: Adore Me Calissa Bodysuit

Accessories & Props:

  • Pair with a delicate gold body chain for added shimmer.
  • A wide-brimmed hat adds mystery and creates dynamic shadow play in photos.
  • Black stiletto heels to elongate your legs.

2. Two-Piece Sets with Strappy Details
Strappy lingerie is equal parts bold and playful. Whether you go for a vibrant color or stick with black, straps highlight your natural curves and create a dynamic, edgy vibe.
🔥 Shop this look: Bluebella Emerson Set

Accessories & Props:

  • Add a chunky statement necklace or choker for contrast.
  • Handcuffs or a silk ribbon tie around your wrists can add subtle, seductive energy.
  • Pose with a chair or barstool for strong, angular shots.

3. Sheer Robes and Kimonos
A sheer robe flows beautifully, creating a sense of movement and drama. Wear it over a bodysuit, a matching set, or on its own for a dreamy, ethereal vibe.
Shop this look: Rose Lace Bralette & Midi Skirt Set

Accessories & Props:

  • Add feathered heels for a vintage touch.
  • Use a handheld mirror as a prop for reflective, intimate shots.
  • Play with a soft fan for a luxurious and playful vibe.
Woman wearing light purple bodysuit with a bouquet of baby's breath in luxury studio just outside of Detroit, Michigan.

4. Bold, Vibrant Colors
Jewel tones like emerald green, royal blue, and deep burgundy pop on camera and bring out your skin’s natural glow. These colors exude confidence and power.
💎 Shop this look: Sunchaser Lace Underwire Teddy

Accessories & Props:

  • Statement earrings in gold or emerald to complement the tones.
  • Velvet or satin gloves add a touch of luxury.
  • Incorporate rich, textured props like a faux fur throw.

5. High-Waisted Sets for Retro Vibes
High-waisted lingerie flatters your waist while adding a nostalgic, Old Hollywood glamour. Add lace, mesh, or satin for texture and romance.
🌟 Shop this look: Alyss By Agent Provocateur

Accessories & Props:

  • Cat-eye sunglasses or vintage pearls for a retro aesthetic.
  • A vintage rotary phone or cocktail glass for storytelling props.
  • Strappy heels with an ankle strap to complete the look.

Accessories That Elevate Your Look

Accessories are like the cherry on top—they’re subtle yet powerful additions that can completely transform your vibe.

  • Jewelry: Opt for layered necklaces, delicate anklets, or bold cuffs. Avoid anything too distracting; the focus should stay on you.
  • Stockings: Sheer thigh-highs with lace tops are a classic, while fishnets bring an edgy twist.
  • Shoes: Stilettos, pumps, or even barefoot with toe rings—each brings a unique energy to your look.

Props to Create the Mood

Props add depth and dimension to your session, and most of these things I already have in the studio. They’re not just tools—they’re part of the experience.

  1. Soft Textures: Faux fur throws, velvet cushions, or satin sheets for a sensual and inviting backdrop.
  2. Everyday Items with a Twist: An oversized button-up/dress shirt, your partner’s favorite tie, or a soft knit sweater for cozy, intimate shots. Band T-Shirts, Sports Jerseys, Occupation Accessories.
  3. Wine Glasses or Champagne Flutes: Pair with a bottle of bubbly to add a celebratory, carefree vibe.
  4. Books or Journals: For a reflective, softer mood, pose with an open book or journal.
  5. Flowers: Single-stem roses or petals scattered across a bed add a romantic, feminine touch.
  6. Lighting Props: Think fairy lights or candles to create a warm, intimate glow in your photos.

Final Pro Tips for the Ultimate Boudoir Session

  • Bring multiple options to your shoot—variety is the spice of boudoir life, and you’ll feel more confident knowing you’ve got choices.
  • Test out your outfits beforehand to be sure they fit well and feel comfortable. Confidence shines when you’re not tugging or adjusting!
  • If you’re unsure about sizing or styles, reach out to me for personalized suggestions.

💌 Ready to create a boudoir experience that’s uniquely you? Let’s make your session unforgettable.

Woman wearing strappy lingerie outfit in guide for what to wear for boudoir with Magan Rogers in Ferndale, Michigan.

Top Rated Lingerie Sites:

ThirdLove – Known for comfort and fit-focused lingerie

Adore Me – Offers a variety of styles at affordable prices

Agent Provocateur – Luxurious and bold designs.

Honey Birdette – High-end lingerie with unique, sultry looks

La Perla – Classic, elegant lingerie with exquisite craftsmanship

Bluebella – Modern and fashion-forward pieces

Savage X Fenty – Inclusive sizes and bold, trendy styles

Cosabella – Comfortable, high-quality lace and basics

Journelle – Curated, elegant collections


Your boudoir session is about celebrating your unique beauty, and the right lingerie helps set the scene for this experience. Pick what makes you feel amazing, and let your confidence shine.

There are NO rules about what you “have” to wear.

Contact me to book your shoot today and start planning your perfect looks.

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5 Tips for Feeling Confident and Beautiful At Your Boudoir Shoot